On the other side.... Sometimes, people do certain things. And at times, it may seem rude, aggressive and not to your liking. We tend to get angry or annoyed with these people. But has it ever crossed your mind that perhaps, it was your fault that they turned out the way they did. Perhaps it was the way you spoke to them, or perhaps they are the product of the environment they brought up in. Then again, it might be that they find it hard to express their feelings or thoughts. People are most often than not misunderstood, no matter how contrary their intentions were to those of what people “see it to be”. So what are we to do? Life is like a loop. One day you are the angry person and the next you’re the one misunderstood. I suppose that’s why there are many verses from the holy Qur’an that advocates patience and a hadith saying that a person who can control his anger is the strongest of people. It’s a pity that we’re always ignoring guidance. Well, that’s humans: we never learn till something happens. Just a small contemplation for today….